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lemme introduce here Diana.
I was lucky enough to be given the opportunity to
go out on a date with this beautiful young lady this
past Friday night. And if you think her picture here
looks good.. lemme tell you she looks ten times better
in person.. WOW! But I know that looks alone won't cut
it with me.. there has to be something deeper. So this
was somewhat of a blind date. She basically signed my
guestbook on Asian Avenue randomly so I decided to go
check out her little thing. I found out that she has
a fairly new business called Envy
Studios. That really caught my eye.. initiative
is a definite plus for me. So I tried to contact her
and with my luck.. I was able to. So we started talking
for hours at a time and I found out that she was very
interesting. We set a date this past Friday. Oddly enough
she picked me up. I honestly can't remember the last
time a girl picked me up.. especially for a first date.
She told me that she drove an Acura.. and to my surprise
again.. I found out that it was suped up. Now I am getting
nervous here because I don't know what to expect anymore.
Cuz even the fact that she was willing to go out with
me even once scares the crap outta me. Actually I think
that's how it is with me with every girl.
Now she tells me that she's very shy.. and maybe
I have a different definition of shy.. but lemme just
say that she's not very shy. We were just gabbing away.
We head out to the Brea Mall to do some shopping because
she had like a customer preferred discount there. We
went to Express and this girl could shop! Even though
she wasn't able to find exactly what she was looking
for.. I still think she got a ton of stuff. Afterwards
we go to the nearby TGI Fridays. Now I am by far NOT
a drinker or even close to one. But I wanted to try
something new.. I wasn't about to say no without trying
it first. So we stayed there and talked for a good 3-4
hours.. and you know you've stayed there long enough
when the waitresses brings you're check twice just to
let you know that you've already paid. LOL. We had some
of the weirdest things to say and unusual conversation
topics you will ever hear. Like I explained my whole
little dating guidelines which was weird because you
don't ever tell someone how things are set up with you.
But anyways I thought I just might share my anecdotes
with you.
This is roughly how the guidelines of my dates proceed:
1st Date: Basically
this is where the click-factor (CF) begins. There has
to be some type of common interest or spark before anything
further can happen. Now usually I let the woman do what
they want to do and take them to places they are comfortable
with. This is mostly the "fun" date but there's also
a little bit of romanticism involved. Getting to know
someone is really all I want and expect from this date.
2nd Date: Now
this is where it gets interesting. If you've managed
to get past the first date, this is sort of my reward
to you. I take you to places you've never been before
and do things that you've never experienced. This is
where the romanticism gets somewhat more intense. The
CF has to be there if it wasn't too obvious in the first
date. I take you to romantic little restaurants and
other things that I won't elaborate too much upon so
that I keep my "surprise factor." Lemme just say that
you're perfect dates you've imagine usually come true
or close to that.
3rd Date: Now
if you managed to still keep me with you.. This is what
I call my Make-it-or-break it date (MB). I don't like
to string along girls too long. Sometimes this happens
in the 4th date, but I know that I Make-it-or-break-it
when I'm absolutely sure that nothing more can come
from this relationship. I don't want things to get monotonous
or boring. I'm looking for Ms. Right.. not Ms. Right-NOW
and I want to be able to know that something good can
come from me committing to them. It might not seem like
it with my rampant dating style.. but I'm looking for
something long term. But I'm not just gonna commit to
anyone.. I have to get the feeling that there's a potential
long-term relationship with them.
No Second Chances:
Now I've gotten some mixed feelings about this rule.
Basically I don't give out second chances. If it didn't
work out the first time.. it's not gonna work the second
time. If you let me go once.. you'll let me go again.
I don't want to be one of those peoples that keeps going
back to their ex's in hopes that things might change.
That's like running your head up against the wall..
getting up.. and doing it again. I only break up when
I'm absolutely sure of it.
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